Are you struggling to figure out if your man is still in love with you? We are going to cover the 5 signs he doesn’t love you anymore and when it is time for you to move on! Figuring out if it is time to move on from a relationship can be a very challenging thing to do. That is why we going to cover exactly how you can figure out the answer with certainty.
How To Know If Your Man Still Loves You
1. He Doesn’t Pursue You
What I mean by this is that he doesn’t call you, text you, ask you out on dates. There’s just no energy coming from him and no investment. He doesn’t really love you, maybe he loves himself or someone else. Either way, the energy is not moving towards you it’s moving away from you and potentially even towards himself.
2. He Picks Fights
Now, there’s something to be said if you feel like he’s picking fights because there’s a defence mechanism or coping mechanism going on. But if this guy is constantly picking fights for the smallest reasons like he just wants to constantly have arguments and create that distance. He’s just in it for himself, he’s not in it for you. So if you feel like you’re in that camp, it may be time to move on.
3. He Stonewalls
This is one of the worst things. Gotmann talks about this as one of the four horsemen that kill a relationship because there’s so much resentment that has already built up. So he either doesn’t love you or he doesn’t love you anymore.
When he stonewalls you he closes his heart up completely and it doesn’t make you feel safe because you can’t open up anymore. Now you are going to want to protect yourself because you don’t want to experience all that rejection, shame, or embarrassment. Then, the worst-case scenario is feeling helplessness and powerlessness, your ego will not allow you to feel that. So you naturally will close up as well.
Stonewalling is when you don’t get a reaction anymore. The opposite of love does not equal not hate, it’s apathy. Stonewalling would almost start to fall into the category of apathy, there’s nothing there anymore. There’s no more momentum and the relationship is pretty much over.
4. He Is Not Making You Happy
This could either be that he knew how to make you happy and isn’t any more or that he’s more interested in doing what makes him happy. Maybe he’d bring you your favorite ice cream or took you for a weekend getaway and he no longer does that. He’s just focusing on what he wants to do for the weekend, he wants to hang out with his buddies and come home at 2:00 a.m and he doesn’t care what makes you happy. He doesn’t ask you what makes you happy, he’s not responding to you when you cry or you’re sad and that’s because he’s not invested in your happiness. That is a high-level indication that he doesn’t love you.
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5. He Doesn’t Tell You Or Show You
He doesn’t tell you that he loves you, and he doesn’t show you that he loves you either. So there’s no love or affection, no kisses, no hugs. There’s no desire to get close to you, to be connected to you physically. He also is not making any efforts to give you any gifts or surprise you and do something special for you.
He’s not doing those acts of service, he’s not really doing anything for you at all. Like not even taking out the trash, you can do that yourself or cooking for you, giving you a massage, he doesn’t do any of this. He doesn’t spend any quality time with you, he’s constantly distracted. Maybe he’s always looking at his phone or distracted by his friends, his family, his work, basically, everything is more important than you. So, that’s what I mean, he doesn’t show you with all five love languages that he loves you. That’s also a sign that he doesn’t love you and it’s time to honor yourself and move on.
Conclusion – Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore
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Does your man do any of the above? If so, it could be one of the signs he doesn’t love you anymore and that it is time for you to move on.