When you know exactly where and how to touch a man, you hold the key to igniting a fire of passion, pleasure, and deep connection. If you’re tired of guessing what turns him on or feeling unsure if your touch really excites him, this article is for you. Imagine having the power to make him melt under your fingertips, crave your presence, and feel like he’s the luckiest man alive just because you get him. Yes, even if you’re shy, inexperienced, or simply unsure where to start.

I’m Kevin Anthony, a guest writer for Brody & Antia. I’m a certified sexologist, NLP practitioner, and sex, love, and relationship coach. For over a decade, I’ve helped men, women, and couples have the relationship of their dreams and the best sex of their lives. I’ve also spoken at places like Google, Harvard University Faculty Club, and Good Morning San Diego, sharing insights that change relationships forever.

Now let’s get sexy. Here are the seven secret places your man really wants to be touched — and how to do it in a way that will make him crave you nonstop.

1. His Chest

Men love this. Especially if he has some chest hair or muscle there. When you run your fingers across his chest, it tells him you’re into him. It feels warm. Strong. Masculine. And when you do it slowly, with just your fingertips, it sends shivers through him.

Now, many women go for the nipples because their own nipples are sensitive. But here’s the truth — most men don’t feel much from that. His pectoral muscles are the real spot. Slide your hand across his chest as you snuggle up. Use slow, smooth motions. He’ll feel your care. He’ll feel your attention. And it will turn him on like crazy.

2. His Back

This one is simple, but so powerful. Men love when you use your nails. Not too hard. Just a gentle scratch up and down his back. Especially when you’re hugging or holding him close. It adds sensation. It creates a charge. And if you’re in the middle of foreplay, it can send electric chills straight through his body.

When you do this right, it’s more than just touching. It’s connection. He feels your presence. Your playfulness. Your desire. It’s a total turn-on.

3. His Pubic Hair

This is where things start heating up. You don’t even need to take his clothes off. Just slide your hand down to the top of his pants. That soft stroke around his pubic hair sends a very clear message.

Use your nails lightly. Make slow, teasing movements. It’s close to the most sensitive area of his body, so yes — it’s a big turn-on. But it’s also about the tease. About showing him you’re confident, playful, and bold. That kind of touch leaves him buzzing.

4. His [You Know Where]

Of course, we’re going to talk about that spot. Every man loves having his penis touched. That’s no surprise. But here’s the real insight — unlike women, most men are totally fine if you go straight there. No warm-up needed.

That doesn’t mean you have to skip the other places. But if you go for it right away? He won’t mind. In fact, he’ll love it. A quick grab while you kiss him? Huge turn-on. Just know — this is a green light zone. You’re not doing too much. You’re not moving too fast. This is what he’s been hoping you’d do.

5. His Testicles

This one gets skipped a lot because women are nervous. And that’s totally understandable. We’ve all seen those movies where getting hit down there looks like the worst thing ever.

But here’s the truth — if you’re gentle and careful, this can be really pleasurable for him. Most men like having their testicles touched. You can stretch them, rub them, roll them around a little. Just pay attention to how he responds.

If you’re still unsure, don’t worry — my wife Selene has created videos on exactly how to do this on our YouTube channel. It’s easier than you think, and it can really take things to the next level.

6. His Perineum

This spot is gold. It’s the area between his testicles and his anus. It’s soft. Sensitive. And when he’s turned on, it feels amazing when you lightly stroke or massage it.

Here’s the bonus — right under this spot, you can actually touch the inside base of his penis from the outside. So when you give him a little massage there? You’re lighting up nerves he didn’t even know he had.

Soft strokes. Circular motions. Just a few fingers. He’ll feel a whole new level of pleasure. And he’ll be thinking about you for days.

7. His Prostate

Okay, we saved the boldest one for last. Yes, we’re going there. Internal prostate stimulation might feel taboo, but it’s one of the most intense ways a man can feel pleasure.

Yes, it involves going through the anus. And yes, some men have fears or thoughts about what that means. But medically and sexually, stimulating the prostate has nothing to do with sexual orientation. It’s just anatomy — and it can feel incredible.

Done gently, with lube, and with care, this can create waves of pleasure he never thought possible. Combine this with testicle play, perineum massage, and touching his penis — and he might just experience the most intense moment of his life.

Not every man is ready for this. But many are curious. And for those who are open to it, it’s next-level.

Get The Relationship Of Your Dreams

Now that you know these seven powerful touch points, you have something most women never even think to learn — a true advantage in making your man feel seen, wanted, and fully turned on. This isn’t just about sex. It’s about closeness. It’s about passion. It’s about making him feel so good that he never wants to let you go.

But this is only the beginning.

Because while touch is powerful, the real magic happens when you connect on all levels — heart, body, and soul. And if you want to go even deeper… if you want a loving, long-term & committed relationship with the man you truly desire…

Take our FREE “Magnetize Your Man” quiz by clicking HERE. You’ll get personalized insight to attract the right man, build lasting desire, and create the relationship you’ve always wanted.

What’s waiting for you is beyond just one touch. It’s a whole new life of love.

And we haven’t even gotten to the real secret yet…


Brody & Antia Boyd
Brody & Antia Boyd

Husband and wife team Brody & Antia Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combine to get a loving, long-term & committed relationship with a man they want fast without loneliness, frustration or rejection. They've been featured speakers at Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club, ABC Radio & Good Morning San Diego.

    5 replies to "A Man Can’t Resist Your Touch In THESE 7 Places"

    • Thulasi

      I need relationship advice

    • ELIZABETH

      I need this, I saw my man turning off just after getting me ready, is that normal

    • Sonja le Roux

      Enjoyed

    • Luna

      I want to thank you for this, it really helped spice up foreplay, I started with the pubic area, then prenium, then anal, he says to tell you he’s never had such an amazing finish in all his life, we’re both very grateful. 🤭😁

    • nicole swetz

      I am glad we’re getting the same thing about the fact frist time i read this text message me I love it

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