Are you tired of being treated like a doormat? Do you want to be treated like the queen that you truly are? Well, look no further because we have the answer for you. In this article by relationship experts Brody and Antia Boyd, they reveal 10 nice girl habits that all women must change in order to attract the love they desire. Let's dive right in and explore two of these game-changing habits.
1 – The Chameleon Effect: Embrace Your True Identity
One common habit among nice girls is trying to mold themselves into someone they think their partner wants them to be. They end up losing touch with their own identity, desires, and unique personality traits. However, it's crucial for women to remember who they really are and embrace their true colors. By staying authentic and genuine, you will attract a man who appreciates your individuality rather than treating you like a doormat.
2 – Avoid the Word “Bitch”: Don't Give Others Power over You
The more you resist certain labels or words, the more others will use them against you as a form of manipulation. Instead of avoiding such words or giving them power over your self-worth, it's essential to stand strong in your convictions without letting others define who you are. By refusing to let derogatory language affect how you perceive yourself, men will not have ammunition to disrespect or manipulate you.
These two points highlight just some of the key habits that need changing in order for women to break free from being treated poorly by men. It's time for women everywhere to reclaim their power and demand respect in relationships. Stay tuned for part two where we'll uncover more eye-opening habits worth transforming.
3 – Making Excuses for Other People
When it comes to relationships, many women have a habit of making excuses for other people's behaviors. They find themselves justifying disrespectful actions or accepting mistreatment as if it's their fault. But here's the harsh truth: by making excuses, you're only allowing those who mistreat you to continue doing so.
It's time to hold people accountable for their actions and set boundaries. Don't let anyone walk all over you and make sure that your self-worth is not compromised by making excuses for others. By standing up for yourself and expecting better treatment, you'll attract partners who respect and cherish you.
4 – Giving Wrong Men Benefit of the Doubt
Are you constantly giving second chances to men who don't deserve them? It may be time to change this nice girl habit and start recognizing red flags earlier on in a relationship. The wrong men often show signs of manipulation, narcissism, or emotional unavailability right from the beginning.
Instead of investing your time and energy into individuals who will never appreciate or respect you, focus on discerning the right men worth giving the benefit of the doubt. Don't waste precious moments with someone who continues to break your trust or diminish your self-esteem.
5 – Focusing on Him Rather Than Yourself
Growing up as nurturers and helpers can lead women into focusing more on others than themselves in relationships. While being caring is admirable, it's crucial not to lose sight of your own dreams, desires, and ambitions.
Shift the spotlight back onto yourself; prioritize self-care while pursuing what makes YOU happy without compromising your own goals. By finding balance between supporting others' aspirations while fostering your individual growth, you'll radiate confidence and create fulfilling partnerships built on mutual support.
6 – Believe in Words More Than Actions
When it comes to relationships, words can be deceiving. Many women have fallen into the trap of believing sweet promises and empty declarations, only to be let down by the actions that follow. It's time to stop putting so much faith in what a man says and start paying attention to what he actually does. Pay heed to his actions because they speak louder than any words ever could.
7 – Trying to Earn His Love
Love is not something you need to earn or deserve. Yet, many nice girls fall into the belief that they must work hard and go above and beyond for a man's affection. They twist themselves into pretzels trying desperately to please him, only to find that their efforts are never enough. But love isn't about earning; it's about being valued and appreciated for who you truly are.
8 – Talking About Other People – Even If Positively
It may seem innocent enough, but talking excessively about other people is actually detrimental when it comes to your own self-growth and success in love. Whether you're complimenting someone or gossiping behind their back, focusing on others takes away from your own personal growth and dreams. Turn those conversations inward instead of outward; focus on yourself, your goals, and how you can make your dreams come true.
In summary: Stop prioritizing words over actions when it comes to love, remember that love is not something you need to earn but rather something that should be given freely out of respect for each other’s individuality, and shift the conversation from others towards yourself so you can unleash your full potential. By breaking these habits, you'll find yourself attracting healthier relationships built on trust, mutual respect, and genuine connection.
9 – Suppressing Your Anger
Suppressing anger can have detrimental effects on your personal growth and relationships. While it may seem like the “nice” thing to do, bottling up your anger only leads to frustration and resentment. Embracing and expressing your emotions, including anger, is essential for a healthy emotional well-being.
Repressing anger not only dampens that emotion but also affects other positive emotions such as joy and passion. When you suppress one emotion, you inadvertently dim others as well. It's important to remember that all emotions are valid and deserve acknowledgment.
By embracing your anger instead of suppressing it, you allow yourself the opportunity to process those feelings in a healthy way. Communicate openly about what angers you in a respectful manner rather than burying it inside. This helps create an environment of honesty and authenticity within your relationships.
10 – Valuing Love Over Respect
Many women fall into the habit of prioritizing love over respect when seeking romantic connections. They believe that being understanding, accommodating, or even subservient will make them more lovable or desirable to their partners.
However, valuing love without requiring respect sets a dangerous precedent for how others should treat you. By putting love above respect, you essentially give permission for disrespectful behavior to continue unchecked.
Respect is an integral component of any healthy relationship—it lays the foundation for trust, support, and equality. If someone truly cares about you, they will extend both love and respect naturally without expectation or compromise.
It's crucial to recognize your worth and demand equal treatment from potential partners who want to earn your love by showing consistent respect throughout the relationship journey.
Changing these nice girl habits can greatly impact how others perceive you while empowering yourself in return. By embracing all aspects of yourself—including anger—and demanding mutual respect in relationships rather than settling for less-than-deserving behaviors allows space for personal growth while attracting healthier partnerships based on genuine love and respect.
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