Are you tired of constantly wondering if a guy likes you or not? Do you find yourself analyzing his every move and trying to decipher his true feelings? Well, you're not alone. In today's video, we'll be discussing 12 subtle signs that a guy may not be interested in you. So get your notepad ready, because you won't want to miss these important clues.

1. Not Making Future Plans With You

When a guy is not making plans with you, it is a sign that he is not interested in you as more than a friend. He may be avoiding any promise of spending more time with you.

Psychologically, when a person does not have any interest in the other person, they will be reluctant to make plans with them or make any kind of commitment.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. He’s not asking you to hang out in the future or does not follow up when you make plans.
2. He doesn't suggest activities you can do together or bring up ideas of what you can do as a couple.
3. He doesn't confirm plans or make any kind of effort to make sure you both spend time together.

2. He Often Talks About Other Women

He might be more interested in other women if he's always talking about them. This could be a sign that he's not interested in you. It could also be a sign that he's just not attracted to you.

On a psychological level, this could alternatively be a sign that he's trying to show you that he's still desirable to other women, which could hint at feelings of insecurity.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. He talks about other women he's dated
2. He talks about female celebrities he finds attractive
3. He brings up other women in conversation or even compares them to you

3. He Doesn't Engage In Deep Conversations

When a guy doesn't want to invest in you, he may avoid deep conversations about topics that matter to you. Instead, he will talk about only the most surface level topics, or he will never initiate a conversation in the first place. He may also get uncomfortable or avoid answering when you try to engage him in a deeper conversation.

Psychologically, deep conversations are a sign of connection and investment in the relationship. When a guy doesn't engage in these conversations, it can be a sign that he is not interested in creating a strong connection with you.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. Refuses to talk about his past or his family
2. Answers with one-word responses or doesn't answer at all
3. Quickly changes the subject when you bring up something personal

4. Avoiding Public Displays Of Affection

He may act like your friend in public and not want to be seen showing any affection towards you. This is a sign he may not be interested in taking the relationship further.

Psychologically, it may be a sign he’s not comfortable with the idea of being with you or he doesn’t want to be seen as being taken. He may be trying to protect himself from rejection or mask his feelings.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. Not wanting to hold your hand or give you a hug when you’re in public.
2. Not mentioning you on social media or introducing you to his friends and family.
3. Not making plans in the future with you.

5. Not Complimenting You

When someone likes you, they naturally want to show appreciation for who you are and what you do. If your guy isn't giving you compliments or expressing his admiration for you, it might be a sign that he's not as interested in you as you thought.

Psychologically speaking, compliments are a way of conveying positive feelings and appreciation. When someone doesn't compliment you, it can signify that they're not feeling that same level of connection with you.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. Not noticing the changes you have made to your appearance
2. Not recognizing good aspects of your character
3. Not appreciating your efforts to make him feel special.

6. Not Asking About Your Life

If a guy isn't asking about your life, it could be a sign that he's not interested in you. He doesn't show any real interest in what is happening in your life, and he is not interested in getting to know you better.

Psychologically, this could be because he's not invested in the relationship and he doesn't see it going any further. He may also not feel comfortable enough to open up to you and share his own life experiences.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. Not offering to help with problems or life struggles.
2. Not remembering details about your life or asking about them again.
3. Not caring to know your goals or dreams.

7. Prefers Group Settings With You

He usually doesn't want to be alone with you. He would rather hang out with you in a group setting, or he might even try to avoid being alone with you altogether. This could be because he's not interested and hopes to minimize the chances of the two of you connecting on a deeper level.

Psychologically, it could indicate that he's not comfortable in the relationship or he’s not sure how to act around you. He might also be trying to avoid talking to you about any serious topics or deeper feelings.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. He makes plans with you but always insists that other people come along.
2. He never initiates one-on-one hangouts with you.
3. He avoids conversations that could become intimate or emotional.

8. Is Distant or Non-Responsive

He may not engage with you, reply to your messages, or make time for you in his schedule. This can be a sign that he is not interested in building a relationship with you. The psychological explanation is that he is not investing the same level of effort into the relationship as you are, and so he is not showing that he cares.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. He ignores your calls or texts.
2. He is unenthusiastic when you suggest meeting up.
3. He rarely initiates conversation with you.

9. Talking About Being Single

He might talk about being single, having no plans to commit or be in a relationship, or even about seeing other people. This could indicate that he’s not interested in taking things further with you. Even if he’s not outwardly putting distance between you, this kind of behavior can be a sign that he’s not interested.

Psychologically, this kind of talk can be a way to create a sense of safety and distance. He may be trying to protect himself from getting too close to you or from getting hurt.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. He talks about his dating history, or wanting to date around.
2. He talks about his plans to stay single.
3. He talks about not wanting to commit to a relationship.

10. He Calls You His “Friend” Or “Buddy”

He is likely trying to communicate that he doesn't have romantic feelings for you. He may be avoiding using terms of endearment or any language that could be interpreted as romantic. Additionally, he may be trying to create a clear boundary between the two of you, making sure that you don't get the wrong idea.

Psychologically speaking, calling you his “friend” or “buddy” is a way of distancing himself from you. He may be signaling that he doesn't want to deepen the relationship, and is instead trying to keep it more platonic.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. He introduces you as his “friend” to his family and friends.
2. He talks to you like he would talk to any of his other friends.
3. He always uses terms such as “buddy” or “pal” when addressing you.

11. Not Mentioning You On His Social Media Or To Friends & Family

If a guy isn't including you in his social media posts or conversations with friends and family, he may not be interested in a relationship with you. He may feel that mentioning you would mean committing to a relationship with you and he's not ready. He also may not want to change his lifestyle by introducing you into it.

Psychologically, a guy who doesn't mention you may have a fear of commitment. He may be avoiding the idea of a relationship, so he doesn't talk about you in an effort to keep his distance.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. He never talks about you when he's with his friends or family.
2. He never posts about you on social media.
3. He never introduces you when you're with his friends or family.

12. He Doesn't Share Personal Details With You

If a guy is uninterested in getting to know you better, it could be a sign he doesn't like you. He won't be willing to share details about himself, his life, his family, his friends, or his dreams and aspirations. He won’t ask you questions about yourself either.

Psychologically, it makes sense that someone who is interested in you would take the time and effort to get to know you better. When a guy doesn't share personal details with you, it's likely because he doesn't feel a connection or he isn't attracted to you.

3 Other Examples Of What This Could Look Like Are:

1. He won't answer your questions about himself.
2. He avoids talking about his hobbies and interests.
3. He doesn't remember things you tell him about yourself.

It’s important to recognize the signs that a guy isn't interested in you. However, it's also important to remember that it's not always about you. Sometimes, a guy may have personal issues or commitment fears that prevent him from pursuing a relationship. So don't take it personally and make sure to continue to focus on your own happiness and well-being if that may be the case.

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Antia & Brody Boyd
Antia & Brody Boyd

Husband and wife team Antia & Brody Boyd have been helping thousands of successful women all over the world for over 20 years combine to get a loving, long-term & committed relationship with a high-quality man fast without loneliness, frustration or rejection. They've also been featured expert speakers at Google, the Harvard University Faculty Club, ABC Radio & Good Morning San Diego.

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